Monday, December 15, 2008

Why snooping at Office Christmas Parties is a grave mistake.

“Most affairs stem from workplace relationships. Over the past four decades we have studied and investigating extramarital affairs” says infidelity expert Bill Mitchell.

“80% of extramarital affairs involve either a coworker or supporting staff related to the workplace. We have witnessed this statistic repetitively after solving more than two thousand cases of infidelity” adds private investigator Bill Mitchell.

“After tracking down so many cheating spouses, Mitchell advises in his book The More You Know – Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship, suggests conducting surveillance on holidays and significant events. “But partners of cheating spouse can do irreversible damage in the pursuit of truth by “snooping on their own” at Christmas parties” says Bill Mitchell. “We recognize from experience that Christmas and other holidays present unique opportunities for both cheating spouses and private investigators” adds Mitchell, president and chief investigator of Mitchell Reports Investigations, LLC. “We place them under surveillance and observe their activities should they opt to cheat. Of course we advice our clients to create a “party excuse”, then schedule us affording an opportunity to verify their suspicions” adds Mitchell.

Snooping or running a “covert operation” by a spouse is risky business.

A significant concern in the investigative industry is “tipping off spouses” says Mitchell. Any time a spouse suspects their partner of cheating they need facts that prove it. ”In scores of infidelity cases we find cheating spouses are very concerned about being uncovered, especially by their legal mate.” says Mitchell. The consequences can be profound and they know it. “And you never want to force your spouse further underground making closure almost impossible.” states Mitchell. Instead, we counsel our clients to keep a “low profile” in order to avoid any likely detection. Any spousal attempt to look into workplace infidelity is clearly a “real blunder” and could have very harmful ramifications. “Evidence is the king”, says Mitchell, “Do everything possible to avoid alerting both paramours and spouses. Definitely avoid workplace parties unless you must attend. If you do attend play the role of “naïve” spouse.” says Mitchell.

Mitchell, is the founder of http://www.7daydetective.com/ and the author of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship, has been effectively investigating infidelity for 40 years.
Says Mitchell, “A “tipped off” cheating spouse is precarious and especially dicey business for private investigators.”

“All too often this comes from feeble advice or impulsive behavior” says Mitchell. “Silence is essential. And absolutely, steering clear of any location where cheating spouses cheat is shrewd. These and other strategies keep them off balance” say Mitchell. Infidelity fosters suspicion on both sides. Therefore, any “overt” or “covert” actions can signal the end of an otherwise successful investigation. All victims are under heavy scrutiny by their cheating spouses. They expect of signs of probing, questioning, or spying. Indulging may continue a nightmarish relationship. Furthermore, cheating spouses dwell on alibis, excuses, defenses or exit strategies if and when confronted. They constantly monitor for any indicators of jeopardy.

“Why make it easy on them?” says Mitchell.

What If You Already Suspect A Workplace Affair?

Mitchell says, “Then hire a private investigator to prove it.”If you suspect your spouse or significant other is already involved in a workplace affair, get a private investigator assigned right away! With conclusive “third party” evidence in hand, is a game changer. Solid proof is very powerful, valuable and effective when considered necessary. Christmas parties are just another excellent occasion to expose affairs using investigators. “For some, Christmas can be a difficult time to take action. Private Investigators solve infidelity cases year round, so don’t fret if you miss this year’s office party.” adds Mitchell.

About Bill Mitchell:

Infidelity expert Bill Mitchell is the founder of www.7daydetective.com and the author of The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship, which brings closure to anyone suspecting infidelity or adultery.

Frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues and infidelity-related breaking news, Bill has been quoted in Cosmopolitan, Ladies Home Journal Online, Esquire, the New York Post, Chicago Tribune, Divorce360.com, and numerous other print and online media worldwide.

Bill has also been a guest on Dr. Phil, Fox News, The Today Show, The Early Show, TV news and talk shows in the United States.

For more information, visit http://www.7daydetective.com/ or http://7daydetective.blogspot.com/


To interview infidelity expert and private investigator Bill Mitchell, call 864-329-0530 or e-mail him at billmitchellpi@bellsouth.net

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